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Life as a singleton in academia | 5 comments (2 topical, 0 hidden)
[new] Mixed feelings (none / 0) (#4)
by halewis on Wed Apr 28, 2004 at 09:06:59 AM PDT

I think that the article makes some valid points. Single people (as well as married people) may have outside interests -- music, reading -- that deserve just as much respect and working around. The departments I'm familiar with let people prioritize teaching times and meeting times and try to schedule around each person's outside priorities, whether it's family related or working out or sleeping in. I've also heard of a company that wanted to provide a room for women to pump breastmilk, and what they did was to provide a "privacy room" for everyone. It met the needs of breastfeeding mothers, but everyone was able to use it for private phone calls, private meetings, or anything else. This wasn't academia, but it still had the benefit of meeting a family-related need in a way that didn't exclude anyone. It certainly is unfair to expect a single colleague to shoulder the burden of evening or weekend activities -- if those are expected of people, then it needs to be equitable, either by everyone taking turns or by dividing up "undesirable" activities so that one person does weekend activities but gets preference in choosing courses.

But I also have some disagreements with the article. At times it equates "single" with "childless" and "married" with "having children". Single people do have tuition benefits for their children, just like married people, at schools that offer that benefit. It's whether or not you have children that is the issue, not whether or not you are married. A bigger issue might be whether schools that offer benefits to married couples offer those same benefits to gay couples (domestic partners, for example), but the article doesn't address that much.

Aside from equal opportunity for benefits regardless of sexual orientation, I don't, in truth, see a need to give everyone equal dollar amounts of benefits. To me that's the wrong focus (my health insurance would be more valuable if I had 10 kids -- should I get a bonus because I only have 2? And paid maternity leave is not really the same thing as paid vacation.) Stressing this seems to detract from the part of the article that I do sympathize with: recognizing that everyone has outside lives and working around them respectfully.



[new] Possible Solutions to the Singleton Problem (none / 0) (#5)
by sormani on Sat May 08, 2004 at 08:14:27 PM PDT

I don't think that we can get anything done to benefit academics by dividing the community. So I'd like to ask single academics to make suggestions that all academics can fight for which benefit singles. Here are some I've come up with in response to the article:

1. Using health insurance for any second adult benefits everyone including married couples where both work. Also health insurance buyouts ($3000 not to use the insurance) may help singles who could get cheaper insurance using their single status.

2. Encouraging parents not to mention their families when negotiating their schedules. Just anyone say, I won't teach at such and such a time but am flexible about these times and/or couses. Untenured faculty who mention their kids too much don't get tenure. It looks unprofessional.

3. Calling for half-time half-pay years and unpaid leaves for childcare. Very few people are getting paid leaves anyway and I agree that is unfair. I get annoyed since I've taken unpaid leaves. The half leave would be more affordable and more people would take it rather than struggling to keep their 50 hour weeks going when they have small kids. In fact, more tenure track parents would have time with their kids. They don't get tenured when they fail to keep up the intense tenure track jobload. I think the stop the clock system is not perfect because it just ends up making people stop research and just do service and teaching, and then they have difficulty restarting their research.

4. Calling for half-time half-pay years and unpaid leaves for any reason. Perhaps you want to write a novel or a symphony (even though you're a mathematician) or try out finance or industry. I think these activities make better faculty.

5. Posting vitas of all faculty and current service, current teaching and recent papers on webpages can boost a department's reputation and stop a lot of the resentment between faculty. Sometimes people are doing extensive service on university committees and are less visably active in the department. If people keep a record of past service and evening teaching online, the current evening and off hour workers may feel less resentful when putting in their time. I started posting all my credentials when I was accused of getting a job for being a woman.

Please comment since I plan to write to the AWM about the matter.

Christina

PS I am moderating an AWM forum on this topic at http://comet.lehman.cuny.edu/sormani/AWM/forum2004.html



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